Grasping for control......

I am still amazed at how people will still try to hang on after the ship is going down. I mean really you started this, it's what you want so badly.

The ex husband to be purchased some desks for our sons. That is all fine and good. I will not deny them anything their father wants to give them. He has always been Disney to them.

This behavior always kicks into high gear when we are in the process of divorce. Same thing this time. First out of the gate are the constant phone calls and then taking the to dinner one night a week. Then buying them things.

The dinner thing only last two weeks and the phone calls come and go. But the week I was served he purchased these desks. Great wonderful good as the youngest one has been asking for one for awhile now.

I am sure you are wonder where the control factor comes in. The desk you see are the ones you have to put together. This is not my speciality in life. So hence they sit in their boxes.

So the ex to be calls today and is inquiring if the desks have been put together yet. The boys tell him no and from there his rant begins. Well if your not going to use them I am going to return them. The money is better sitting in my account than me paying the furniture store.

So with all that goes on in this world his worry is about the desk in the box. Well why the hell didn't you put them together before you brought them over here. Better yet purchased them already assembled.

What a concept. Lest we forget you forgo control and that is what it is all about for you.