Time flies when your having..........

Well it has been awhile since I have visited and alot has happened summer school is over and band camp is done what a week. The person with the surprise birthday visit still ceasing to amaze me. It will be interesting to see where this all leads. He is concerned I am falling in love with him. At this point on so many levels it is not happening. Don't get me wrong he is a great guy but my head is so in a different place. I decided some time back that it is time for me. I went from living at home to living with the first husband then divorced only to be married a year later and have been separated for the last 4 years of this so called 16 marriage. I am very content with my life just me and my 3 children and doing what I want to or don't want too. At this point to get caught up in someone else when I am no where near ready for that. Besides I know enough females that can't live without someone in their life and my motto is learn to live with me first.