Well fellow bloggers it has finally happened. Last Thursday on July 9th, my niece was removed from her father's home for neglect. It has been a hectic couple of months. She is very very happy to back with us.
So everyone keep us in your prayers that it sticks this time and she doesn't have to live him ever again. Everything is in the investigative stages. The law being the law looks at rights and it is unfortunate that some of the things that have happened to her are not concrete enough. Currently it looks like they may get him on the fact that even though she is fourteen there is an inordinate amount of time she is being left alone. My niece has AD/HD and her medication is a controlled substance. So why on God's green earth would anyone make a child responsible to take her meds.
I did an audit of her meds and according to my calculations she missed her afternoon meds sixteen times since the prescription has been filled. That in addition to the time she is left alone with only a tv for entertainment. What kind of stimulation is that for a child even without any learning disability?
So needless to say we are hoping at the very least we can get emotional abuse if not neglect. We hope to get lucky and get both. I cannot imagine what it has been like for her to listen to the countless racial slurs against her mothers family. To constantly be told no one cares about her especially her therapist and caseworker. That she is just a job to them. To be constantly threatened with physical violence when she doesn't do things to their liking.
She has had to endure being told she smells like nasty white people. Resulting in her having to shower every Sunday when she returned home from visit from my house. My niece is bi racial. They did not like the way she made the bed so she had to sleep in a pallet on the floor. He did not buy her any summer clothes but had a fit when her mother and I did. He went as far as to say we were interfering. What because we thought that jeans and long sleeve shirts were a little much for summer. It is only in the nineties.
Our break came on Thursday July the third when he left her alone since eleven that morning. We picked her up for visit on Friday at nine thirty and he was still not home. Later we would find out that he did not come home till the early hours of Saturday morning. A series of events that night proved to be his undoing. I called the caseworker and the therapist. The therapist in turn called for a well check. But since the girlfriend was due home they left her.
Over the weekend the police called to verify that the girlfriend lived there in turn my niece suffered the consequence of that action. I would like to say good job fellas! Anyway, punishment commenced on Monday morning for her at five in the morning. She was made to get up and clean all the baseboards and clean all the windows. Then at seven thirty the locked her out of the apartment and was told to stay standing in the hallway. I am not even sure how long they left her out there. What kinda of parent would think this is remotely okay. All because the police had come to check on her.
Tuesday he refused for her therapist to meet in private with her as sessions are held in the home. He frightened the therapist so bad she called the caseworker and now refused to return to his house for therapy with my niece. Plus the therapist and I received a tongue lashing from him for interfering. I hung up on. Notified the caseworker of what was going on. The caseworker then called the home and received no answer so she went to check on my niece in person.
Guess what she was there alone again. She told the caseworker what happened and what had been going on since he found out about the well check aka police showing up at his house. So there is the basics without listing all the totally off the wall things that have been going on that are considered acceptable parenting. So now the caseworker, therapist and myself are the wicked bitches that have been sexual servicing each and the judge to get my niece out of his home.
I am sorry but no one can pull the trigger of a loaded gun unless given the ammo. So who shot off their own foot here?
So everyone keep us in your prayers that it sticks this time and she doesn't have to live him ever again. Everything is in the investigative stages. The law being the law looks at rights and it is unfortunate that some of the things that have happened to her are not concrete enough. Currently it looks like they may get him on the fact that even though she is fourteen there is an inordinate amount of time she is being left alone. My niece has AD/HD and her medication is a controlled substance. So why on God's green earth would anyone make a child responsible to take her meds.
I did an audit of her meds and according to my calculations she missed her afternoon meds sixteen times since the prescription has been filled. That in addition to the time she is left alone with only a tv for entertainment. What kind of stimulation is that for a child even without any learning disability?
So needless to say we are hoping at the very least we can get emotional abuse if not neglect. We hope to get lucky and get both. I cannot imagine what it has been like for her to listen to the countless racial slurs against her mothers family. To constantly be told no one cares about her especially her therapist and caseworker. That she is just a job to them. To be constantly threatened with physical violence when she doesn't do things to their liking.
She has had to endure being told she smells like nasty white people. Resulting in her having to shower every Sunday when she returned home from visit from my house. My niece is bi racial. They did not like the way she made the bed so she had to sleep in a pallet on the floor. He did not buy her any summer clothes but had a fit when her mother and I did. He went as far as to say we were interfering. What because we thought that jeans and long sleeve shirts were a little much for summer. It is only in the nineties.
Our break came on Thursday July the third when he left her alone since eleven that morning. We picked her up for visit on Friday at nine thirty and he was still not home. Later we would find out that he did not come home till the early hours of Saturday morning. A series of events that night proved to be his undoing. I called the caseworker and the therapist. The therapist in turn called for a well check. But since the girlfriend was due home they left her.
Over the weekend the police called to verify that the girlfriend lived there in turn my niece suffered the consequence of that action. I would like to say good job fellas! Anyway, punishment commenced on Monday morning for her at five in the morning. She was made to get up and clean all the baseboards and clean all the windows. Then at seven thirty the locked her out of the apartment and was told to stay standing in the hallway. I am not even sure how long they left her out there. What kinda of parent would think this is remotely okay. All because the police had come to check on her.
Tuesday he refused for her therapist to meet in private with her as sessions are held in the home. He frightened the therapist so bad she called the caseworker and now refused to return to his house for therapy with my niece. Plus the therapist and I received a tongue lashing from him for interfering. I hung up on. Notified the caseworker of what was going on. The caseworker then called the home and received no answer so she went to check on my niece in person.
Guess what she was there alone again. She told the caseworker what happened and what had been going on since he found out about the well check aka police showing up at his house. So there is the basics without listing all the totally off the wall things that have been going on that are considered acceptable parenting. So now the caseworker, therapist and myself are the wicked bitches that have been sexual servicing each and the judge to get my niece out of his home.
I am sorry but no one can pull the trigger of a loaded gun unless given the ammo. So who shot off their own foot here?
2 comments:
Fan-fuckin'-TASTIC!! I hope that girl stays where she belongs: with one of the strongest, most caring women that I know. It's a shame that she had to be put through so much turmoil before the Powers That Be realized that she was with the wrong people.
That waste of life needs to have the shit kicked out of him as well as his balls cut off and fed to him through a straw.
Congratulations, L! You're finally winning. This is good news, indeed!
Thanks for the congrats h-def it still continues to be an uphill battle but so far so good.
L
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