I swear it has taken but a nano second for that man to zap the life right out of her eyes. Monday last week I had to turn my niece over to her father. Why because the court said so. Would never have had happened had I money and connections.
She has spent the first week at his home mostly alone at night, having to medicate herself and eat alone. In the four days she has been there she has heard nothing but disparging remarks about her mother.
Due to transportation issues she was late to school two mornings in a row. Her afternoon meds were forgotten twice. She has been woke up in the night to hear her father and his fiancee (a term I use loosely) fighting because of money he has taken from her purse. Not to mention he has pawned some of her belongings. The fiancee not my niece as I did not let her take things of value with her.
She has been told she does not need a safety plan and that she is not to be calling anyone when he not there but her Grandmother, which is his mother. He also has informed her that as soon as his attorney gets back in town that he will make sure all this meddling ceases. To the point that it is none of the caseworkers business what goes on in his house. He obviously forgot to read the placement papers that she is still a ward of the state.
Plus, did he not hear the judge say the her caseworker, guardian ad litem, therapist all have access to her announced and unannouced? Furthermore he has instructed her that she needs to be retaught how to do things as her Aunt (meaning me) has rasied her children improperly. That is why my children have lived in the same house for the last 14yrs have both parents active in their lives and don't have to worry about food, clothing and shelter.
By the grace of God I have her Friday's afterschool till Sunday evenings let's see how long this last. What excuse will he use. Friday morning before she left for school he instructed that if anyone questions her about what goes on in his house they need to talk to him. Closed his statement with that he was mad at me. Whatever. Fear, intimidation and alienation typical asshole tatics to make a child conform. Oh did I mention this all occurred from around 4pm Monday till Friday at 6:45am not even a full week.
This from a man who sat in the courtroom begging for his right to be a father..........
She has spent the first week at his home mostly alone at night, having to medicate herself and eat alone. In the four days she has been there she has heard nothing but disparging remarks about her mother.
Due to transportation issues she was late to school two mornings in a row. Her afternoon meds were forgotten twice. She has been woke up in the night to hear her father and his fiancee (a term I use loosely) fighting because of money he has taken from her purse. Not to mention he has pawned some of her belongings. The fiancee not my niece as I did not let her take things of value with her.
She has been told she does not need a safety plan and that she is not to be calling anyone when he not there but her Grandmother, which is his mother. He also has informed her that as soon as his attorney gets back in town that he will make sure all this meddling ceases. To the point that it is none of the caseworkers business what goes on in his house. He obviously forgot to read the placement papers that she is still a ward of the state.
Plus, did he not hear the judge say the her caseworker, guardian ad litem, therapist all have access to her announced and unannouced? Furthermore he has instructed her that she needs to be retaught how to do things as her Aunt (meaning me) has rasied her children improperly. That is why my children have lived in the same house for the last 14yrs have both parents active in their lives and don't have to worry about food, clothing and shelter.
By the grace of God I have her Friday's afterschool till Sunday evenings let's see how long this last. What excuse will he use. Friday morning before she left for school he instructed that if anyone questions her about what goes on in his house they need to talk to him. Closed his statement with that he was mad at me. Whatever. Fear, intimidation and alienation typical asshole tatics to make a child conform. Oh did I mention this all occurred from around 4pm Monday till Friday at 6:45am not even a full week.
This from a man who sat in the courtroom begging for his right to be a father..........
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