First off the he lays his seed in some unsuspecting female that has no idea he has no intention of taking any kind of responsibility.
Then so that he does not have to pay any kind of child support he lays up with some stupid female that pays all the bills because he claims to be disabled. He is now in arrears to the tune of $30,000.00 The state has suspended his license. But that does not matter he drives anyway. Has a car. Tell me how it is licensed and insured if he doesn't even have a driver's license? I am still trying to figure that one out.
Next he is only present enough in the child's life that he has no idea about her educational needs, emotional needs and security. But calls all her care providers and tells them that he was advised to do so by his attorney. Not that I am a concerned parent, but that my attorney told me too.
Speaking of the attorney, thanks to all the wonderful tax payers he has a pro bono pit bull. Not only can she represent him juvenile court but district court as well. According to this tax paid pit bull everyone but this male parent is causing this child undo stress. So, I take that she has not heard my niece every time she has been dragged in to court saying that she does not want to live with her male parent. I use the term loosely as he has not earned the right to be called father.
Why should it be any different if it was a custody battle going on in a divorce a child of fourteen would be allowed to decide where they want to live. Mind you this child has lived with me more that either of her parents. I know you are wondering why she is not with my sister well that is a whole other set of issues.
The man has finally been able to sway the powers that be to rule that he is disabled. So he get a check for $2,500.00 a month but, yet on her birthday last month he did have any money to buy her a birthday present. Told her she would have gifts by the end of the month, her birthday was March 9Th. Not to mention the dependant portion my niece is entitled too. Now he will get that too. That should be money being put away for her college education.
The icing on the cake on this whole debacle is that I as a foster parent according to the law have a right to be heard during juvenile proceedings. The last court hearing before this one that gave her male parent placement the judge gave me such a form to fill out. The irony even though I sent the form to the judges office it was turned over to the county attorney as evidence. When it was presented the male parents objected as hearsay. Therefore in my opinion the pit bull violated my right to be heard. Go figure..pro bono bitch.
Amazingly enough I have received a letter in the mail today form the supreme court regarding my right as a foster parent to be heard. I will be anxious to hear what they have to tell me as I am sure that I overwhelmed the woman answering the phone at that office today. He may have won the battle but the war will continue as that child will know that I have and will continue to do everything within my power to see to her welfare not matter where she it.
So there you go once again the lovely foster care system has proven themselves and truly not knowing what is in the best interest of the child. As long as we can clear it off our books and be done with it. Confidentiality clauses be damned.
Then so that he does not have to pay any kind of child support he lays up with some stupid female that pays all the bills because he claims to be disabled. He is now in arrears to the tune of $30,000.00 The state has suspended his license. But that does not matter he drives anyway. Has a car. Tell me how it is licensed and insured if he doesn't even have a driver's license? I am still trying to figure that one out.
Next he is only present enough in the child's life that he has no idea about her educational needs, emotional needs and security. But calls all her care providers and tells them that he was advised to do so by his attorney. Not that I am a concerned parent, but that my attorney told me too.
Speaking of the attorney, thanks to all the wonderful tax payers he has a pro bono pit bull. Not only can she represent him juvenile court but district court as well. According to this tax paid pit bull everyone but this male parent is causing this child undo stress. So, I take that she has not heard my niece every time she has been dragged in to court saying that she does not want to live with her male parent. I use the term loosely as he has not earned the right to be called father.
Why should it be any different if it was a custody battle going on in a divorce a child of fourteen would be allowed to decide where they want to live. Mind you this child has lived with me more that either of her parents. I know you are wondering why she is not with my sister well that is a whole other set of issues.
The man has finally been able to sway the powers that be to rule that he is disabled. So he get a check for $2,500.00 a month but, yet on her birthday last month he did have any money to buy her a birthday present. Told her she would have gifts by the end of the month, her birthday was March 9Th. Not to mention the dependant portion my niece is entitled too. Now he will get that too. That should be money being put away for her college education.
The icing on the cake on this whole debacle is that I as a foster parent according to the law have a right to be heard during juvenile proceedings. The last court hearing before this one that gave her male parent placement the judge gave me such a form to fill out. The irony even though I sent the form to the judges office it was turned over to the county attorney as evidence. When it was presented the male parents objected as hearsay. Therefore in my opinion the pit bull violated my right to be heard. Go figure..pro bono bitch.
Amazingly enough I have received a letter in the mail today form the supreme court regarding my right as a foster parent to be heard. I will be anxious to hear what they have to tell me as I am sure that I overwhelmed the woman answering the phone at that office today. He may have won the battle but the war will continue as that child will know that I have and will continue to do everything within my power to see to her welfare not matter where she it.
So there you go once again the lovely foster care system has proven themselves and truly not knowing what is in the best interest of the child. As long as we can clear it off our books and be done with it. Confidentiality clauses be damned.
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